Christian Single Woman

Similar to other women, it will only be natural for a Christian single woman to undergo disappointments. These disappointments can cause them to be bitter. Some women ask God to give them a man that they can love and be happy with. Some wait while some check out several Christian singles personals that are available today. Women who have wanted to get married for some time are the ones who are most likely to feel bitter.

This bitterness may cause a Christian single woman to think negatively towards God. She will ask why God won’t bless her with a partner even though she has been a good Christian. That even though you obey God and always pray for the right person to come, your prayers are still not answered. A Christian single woman can also feel bitter towards friends or relatives who got married happily. They would ask themselves, “What did they do that I didn’t? Why can’t I be happy like them?”

A Christian single woman should know that frustration can lead to anger and anger can lead to bitterness. Some of us aren’t even aware that we have already fallen into a bitterness trap. Here are 3 reasons why it is not good for a Christian single woman to be bitter:

Bitterness distances you from other people – being bitter can turn off a potential spouse. If you stay bitter, you will only scare off people who are interested to have a relationship with you. Nobody wants marry a mean narrow-minded person. Being bitter will only make it impossible for you to find a partner. Additionally, bitterness will also push your friends and family further away from you. They will eventually grow tired of your attitude and leave you alone. As a result, you will be lonelier than you were in the beginning.

Bitterness will distance you from God – being bitter will damage your relationship with God. It is possible that you will begin to blame him for all your misfortunes and the inability to find yourself a partner. The reason for you to put the blame on God is because there is no one else that you can blame and you also don’t want to blame yourself. You shouldn’t think like this. Remember that God loves all of us unconditionally and only wants to help us, not hurt us.

Bitterness will stop you from being yourself – nobody is naturally negative and harsh. A certain experience in the past may have caused you to be this way but it doesn’t mean that you should stay like this. Being bitter is like choosing the wrong road and staying there. Instead of going back to the right road, you chose to stick with the wrong one. So, where will this lead you? Obviously, you wouldn’t get to your destination. The same is true with bitterness. If you stay bitter for the rest of your life, you will not get to where you want to go.

Bitterness will never bring anything good into your life. If you are stuck in the bitterness trap, remember these 3 reasons and pull yourself together. You’ll be glad you did.